Graduation on Sat for some students — these days we have FEW graduations in our lives. Haha … talking about qualities vs quantities. Never mind … too busy to write.

I wanted to upload songs and also embed youtube but I dont know HOW with blogsome. I like blogspot much better. So, I will MIGRATE to blogspot for NEXT YEAR blog.

Yes, I m busy with my trading blog, but I still want to write in my personal blog, especially about our clowns in Parliment. We are talking about FINANCIAL CRISIS, these jokers(HIGLY PAID with a lot of $$ masuk pockets) talking about trivial race issues, YOGA(what is fatwa), and some still more interested who will sodomise who next. Laughing stocks, man. Embarassing to know SUCH a mentality in our LEADERS? Haha … some dont even know ANYTHING, except how to talk-cock. You may ask them to suck my cock!! REally frustrated to mention about these CLOWNS!! Buuu-huuu

NEGATIVE WORDS INSIDE US

If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue. Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.

Notice when you or other people use them.
?But: Negates any words that are stated before it.

?Try: Presupposes failure.

?If: Presupposes that you may not.

?Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener.

?Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn’t actually happen.

?Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn’t actually happen (and implies guilt.)

?Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn’t actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.


?Can’t/Don’t: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want.

This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.

Examples:Toxic phrase: ‘Don’t drop the ball!’Likely result: Drops the ball.Better language: ‘Catch the ball!’

Toxic phrase: ‘You shouldn’t watch so much television.’Likely result: Watches more television.

Better language: ‘I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!’

Exercise: Take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk that you have noticed yourself using. Write these phrases down so you will begin to catch yourself as they occur and change them

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